Last Saturday, a father walked away from a neighborhood cookout in tears. His sister's 6-year-old had just described photosynthesis to his 9-year-old — right in front of the whole family. His son had no answer.
Three days ago, a grandmother drove 400 miles to visit her grandson. He didn't look up from his screen. Not a single time.
Yesterday, a teacher at a $15,000/year private academy handed her honors students a simple quiz: "Why is the ocean blue, but the water in a cup is clear?" Twenty-four straight-A students. Not one of them could explain it.
This morning, an immigrant mother who held three jobs for seven years so her son could have opportunities watched him burn his sixth hour on YouTube. She phoned me in tears: "I didn't sacrifice everything for this."
Last week, a parent received a call from their daughter's teacher: "I'm recommending we hold Emma back. She isn't able to think critically." That parent has 90 days to prove them wrong.
All of these parents asked me the same desperate question:
"What happened to my kid?"
As the former Director of one of the country's most prestigious private academies, I've spent 15 years watching "smart" kids turn into digital zombies.
And I finally understand why it's happening.